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9 years old

MOST CHILDREN BY AGE 9:

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SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL

  • deal better with conflicts;

  • like to go to friends' houses;

  • want to belong to a social group, especially at school;

  • are still very influenced by parents;

  • look for protection when they feel insecure;

  • benefit from the freedom to perform their independence;

  • have sudden changes of humor;

  • are more conscious of danger and natural disasters;

  • are afraid of different things, instead of fear of monsters;

  • are afraid of crimes, storms or of losing somebody in their families;

  • suffer influences easily;

  • need to be monitored about internet use;

  • have best friends;

  • prefer to play boys with boys and girls with girls;

  • like to play sports and board games instead of make-believe play;

  • recognize norms and appropriate behavior;

  • can control angry most of the times;

  • have caring and solid friendships;

  • have gained a strong sense of empathy;

  • have more stable emotions;

  • have overcome fears from childhood;

  • start to be anxious in stressful situations;

  • are curious about relationships between boys and girls.

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​LANGUAGE AND COMMUNICATION

  • speak well and communicate clearly;

  • write and read;

  • use more sophisticated vocabulary;

  • read different types of texts;

  • are able to research in books at the library and on the internet to get information about different topics;

  • read frequently;

  • enjoy books;

  • have a goal when they read

  • read to learn something of their interest;

  • have speech patterns;

  • speech gets near to adult level.

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COGNITIVE

  • concentrate for a longer period o9f time;

  • go for their interests;

  • change interests very quickly;

  • work well in groups and cooperate;

  • notice that math at school is more complex;

  • start to notice a balance between concepts - it's not everything wrong or everything right;

  • show interest in collections and hobbies;

  • know that objects have different uses and can be classified in different groups;

  • can add and subtract 2-digit numbers;

  • understand fractions;

  • are learning how to borrow and carry values;

  • like organizing and planning ahead;

  • are improving their decision-making skills;

  • can accomplish more complex tasks at school, like writing a book report.

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MOVEMENT

  • are independent;

  • develop physically in different pacing;

  • face challenges because they are getting closer to teenagerhood;

  • show more muscle control;

  • start to enter puberty (it can start between 8 and 12 for girls and 9 and 14 for boys);

  • worry about their body image;

  • enjoy active play;

  • become very interested in team sports;

  • get dressed and do their personal hygiene with no help;

  • use simple tools, like a hammer, by themselves;

  • like to draw, paint, make jewelry, make models or any other activity that uses their fine motor skills.

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